Getting married is not easy and it is certainly not the cheapest of decisions to make, so how are you going to do it?
Cost
Cost is very important and it seems to me that it is the first thing that pops into my head. Perhaps this is because I am male and do not need to see the point in paying out thousands of pounds for one day of people making a fool out of themselevs party marquees. However I do see the appeal of getting married, if you love each other then it has to be the biggest commitment you can make. When it comes to the cost you may actually end up getting help from your parents or her parents in the more traditional cases.
Venue
Where is this huge event of your life going to be held? Are you going to marquees rent or perhaps go for the more traditional Church wedding? I would always recommend the one that is best suited for you as this is the one that is going to make you the happiest. Ladies need to note that although this is often classed as your big day, the groom should have a chance to discuss everything also, he is after all the second most important person of the day and he might not want to get married under traditional marquees.
Of course it isn’t just the cost and venue that you need to worry about but the organisation of it all too. Who are you going to invite, who isn’t allowed to come and all of this will come into the thought process. Then the honeymoon, where are you going to go and who is going to be paying for it all?
The best advice I can give you is, sit down together and talk it through.
